AND SO WE ARE

Scripture Lesson:  1 John 3: 1-7

Dr. Matthew S. Brown

April 30, 2006

 

 

It struck me as, well, rather funny, enough so, that the offhand comment has stuck with me for some 20 years.  I had agreed to chauffeur a couple of middle school students to a youth group activity and was pulling out of one student’s driveway somewhere off of McKee Road.  The car’s interior was filled with the sounds of bubble gum chomping and excited reports of who had called who and what was on sale at Southpark.

 

Now, I was new to this whole ministry “thang” and was feeling totally, or I should say “like totally” (That was the way you said things in the mid-eighties).  So, I was feeling “like totally” inadequate for the task, but some inkling of some lesson I was supposed to have learned in seminary filled me with the sudden intuition that it was my high calling to engage these children of the church, these conspicuous consumers of Clearasil, these Dorito addicted disciples in conversation.  So, flipping through the small-talk manual I passed over “How ‘bout this weather?” or “How ‘bout that new Madonna video?” (Especially since I had not seen the new Madonna video).  I finally settled on the usually fail-safe question, “So, what do you want to be when you grow up?” 

 

Of course,  I was keeping my eyes on the road and therefore could not see the inevitable rolling of the eyes, but one of the students without any hesitation, with complete earnestness, with no hint of self-doubt, matter of factly said, “Well, I’m either going to be a neurosurgeon or a fashion model.” 

 

How do you respond to that?  Vera Wang meets Marcus Welby.  She had no sense of how disparate, disconnected, and schizophrenic that sounded.  And there was something in the way she said it that sounded incomparably self-assured, as though there would be no obstacles in her path, as though attaining these vocations would be no more challenging than choosing what side item you wanted with your Jr. Bacon Cheeseburger, as though her beauty and smarts were so self-evident, I should have guessed it before I even asked the question.  “Duh,  like I’ll either be a neurosurgeon or a fashion model.” 

 

Of course, how obtuse of me.  It’s been twenty years, I wonder what she is doing today? 

“Hi, I’m Dr. Young and I’ll be repairing your herniated disk today while wearing a daring red chiffon backless halter from the Donna Karan Haute Couture Summer Surgical Collection.”  “Nurse Jones, cancel my 2:00 pm spinal fusion, I have a Ralph Lauren photo shoot over at Nordstrom’s.”

 

I guess it could happen.  Big dreams.  Outsized expectations.  Olympic flames, after all, are sparked by the fire and drive burning in individual hearts.  Your first grade teacher reads The Little Engine That Could, planting in your developing self concept that all important word - possibility.

 

And what was it that Dr. Seuss said?

Oh! The places you’ll go

You’ll be on your way up!

You’ll be seeing great sights!

You’ll join the high fliers who soar to high heights.

You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed.

You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead.

Wherever you fly, you’ll be the best of the best.

Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.” 

 

Big dreams and outsized expectations.  Instilling in our minds and hearts the seeds of possibility.

Certainly, the voice of the church joins the chorus, affirming the goodness of what God created in you.  We too, wouldn’t want you leaving today without thinking about what is possible tomorrow. 

 

But what about those times and places where our self-confidence  has slapped down our humble spirit, trespassing into a territory that is God’s alone.

 

The church always faces the daunting challenging of balancing the concepts of possibility and humility.  For when those fall out of balance, pride pulls us from God and neighbor, and life becomes all about me.  Look at me!  Admire me!  Honor me!  Pay attention to me!  We broadcast our strengths and ignore or deny our weaknesses.

 

Have you ever been involved in a job interview?  Why is it that we can’t bring ourselves to express our weaknesses?  Have you ever noticed that?  The interviewer says, “You’ve told us about your strengths.  Now, tell us about your weaknesses.”

 

Why can’t we be honest with this question?  Why do we inevitably, at this point, seek to make any weaknesses sound like strengths -  I probably work harder than what could be considered healthy.”  “I probably try to accomplish too much.”  “I’m too hard on myself.”  “I just don’t like to disappoint anybody.”  “I haven’t learned how to say no.”  “I expect too much from myself.”

We can’t bring ourselves to expose any weaknesses for fear that the possibility of the job will disappear.

 

But in the context of the Christian faith, possibility is not about whether or not we have weaknesses, for we all have weaknesses.  Possibility is about Christ overcoming our weaknesses with his strength.

 

Can we achieve?  Can we accomplish?  Can we attain?  Yes, we can, but not by our own strength, only through the power of Christ at work in us.  “I can do all things THROUGH him who strengthens me,” Paul says, and elsewhere, “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God - not the result of works, so that no one may boast.”

 

Do you see the shift here?  From self confidence to confidence in Christ?

 

Years ago, when new members made their profession of faith, they were asked this question.  “Do you believe you are a sinner in the sight of God, justly deserving his displeasure and without hope except in his sovereign mercy?”  In other words faith is never our accomplishment, but Christ’s gift to us.  Faith is humility and possibility joined together through the love of Jesus Christ.

 

It is important to understand this as we approach a most curious, confusing, and perplexing statement in John’s epistle.  Following a wonderfully phrased expression of God’s love for us, to which we’ll return in a moment, John makes this statement: “No one who abides in him (meaning Christ) sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him.”

 

At first, I thought maybe I had misread this, so I read it again, “No one who abides in him sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him.”

 

Is that true to your experience?  It’s certainly not true to my experience.  And I would be most suspicious of anyone who claimed it was true to their experience.  It makes the practice of faith sound like the middle school student who thinks that becoming a neurosurgeon is “no sweat”.  “No sin?  No problem, haven’t done it in years anyway.”

 

And yet, I know that sin is not only crouched at the door, it’s invited itself in and has started picking out draperies.  Whenever I hear someone pointing out and mocking the sin of others without acknowledging the sin within them, I just know his or her mirror needs a good dose of Windex.

 

So what are we to do with this text in 1 John?  One scholar wrote that the preacher might want to find another text on which to preach this week.  Well, I wish I would have known that on Monday!

 

This text is an important argument for allowing Scripture to interpret Scripture.  “No one who sins has either seen him or known him?”  But in this same letter isn’t it also written, “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.” 

 

Remember also, it was no less than the apostle Paul who said, “I can will what is right, but I cannot do it.  For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I do.”  In addition, who can forget that it was Peter, one so close to Christ, who denied Christ three times.  And lest we forget, throughout his ministry Jesus reserved his severest warnings and harshest judgment for those who regarded themselves as righteous and without sin.

 

We know or at least we should know that our confessions of faith do not free us from the struggle with sin.  In Christ, we are forgiven; in Christ, for the first time there is the possibility that we might not sin.  But there is no one, from the pious to the profligate who does not struggle with sin in this life.

 

So what is it we are to take from this curious statement in 1 John?  Maybe John is seeking to make a clear distinction between Jesus and sin.  Our sin is never a product of faith and our sin is never prompted by Christ.  Indeed, Christ working faith in us creates the possibility that we may not sin, and when we do resist sin, that is not our doing but is the Spirit of Christ at work in us, which takes us back to the idea that faith is humility and possibility joined together through the love of Jesus Christ.

 

It is this understanding that makes the opening words of our text today so powerful.  “See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God, and so we are.”

 

Can we even begin to comprehend the height, depth, width, and breadth of God’s love for us?  A love that regards us as righteous and wiped clean of sin though we have done nothing to deserve it.  A love that looks beyond who we are, what we’ve done and receives us as if we’re actually worthy.

 

Taking an honest, unflinching, and objective look at the record of our lives, anyone would see we’ve been living on the up and up.  Right?  Screwed up, messed up, and fouled up, ignoring the purpose of God, the needs of the neighbor in the relentless, tunnel visioned quest for self-satisfaction and self-importance.  Yet, our Lord still sees something in us like the mother who will not forsake a nursing child, like the father who runs to welcome the prodigal home.  See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God, and so we are.

 

Maybe you’ve heard Fred Craddock’s story of his vacation encounter with an elderly man in a restaurant outside Gatlinburg, TN.  Craddock and his wife had picked out this new restaurant with a splendid mountain view and were sitting down for what they hoped to be a relaxing, restorative dinner.                 

 

Isn’t it one of life’s little joys that first vacation meal, the meal you don’t have to rush through to get to the next meeting, the meal during which you’re not distracted by the challenge of thinking through some work issue or how to respond to the colleague or employee who’s pressing you to make the decision you are not prepared to make, that meal where nobody will bring their troubles to you, that meal where no deadlines loom?  You sit down in that cushioned seat and can literally feel all that stress flowing out of you.

 

Well, for Craddock on that evening, before the stress could find its way to the pores of his skin, an elderly man looking for conversation came up and started with the questions.  Where are you from?  Are you on vacation?  What do you do?

 

Well, when you tell a stranger you’re a minister you are either going to get a story, a discourse on what’s wrong with today’s church or society, an awkward look and the 33 reasons this person isn’t able to get to church, or a political monologue based on the wrong assumption that you would naturally agree with him.

 

The elderly man pulled up a chair.  He had a story.  And I’ll bet Craddock was getting a headache.

 

I owe a great deal to a minister,  he said.

 

I grew up in these mountains.  My mother was not married, and the whole community knew it.  I was what was called an illegitimate child.  In those days that was a shame, and I was ashamed. 

 

The reproach that fell on her, of course, fell also on me.  When I went into town with her, I could see people staring at me, making guesses as to who was my father.  At school the children said ugly things to me, and so I stayed to myself during recess, and I ate my lunch alone.

“In my early teens I began to attend a little church back in the mountains called Laurel Springs Christian Church.  It had a minister who was both attractive and frightening. . . chiseled face... deep voice.  I went to hear him preach...  However, I was afraid that I was not welcome since I was, as they put it, a bastard child.  So I would just go in time for the sermon, and when it was over I’d [slip] out because I was afraid someone would say, ‘What’s a boy like you doing in church?’

 

“One Sunday some people queued up in the aisle before I could get out, and I was stopped.  Before I could make my way through the group, I felt a hand on my shoulder, a heavy hand.  It was that minister... I trembled in fear.  He turned his face around so he could see mine and seemed to be staring for a little while.  I knew what he was doing.  He was going to make a guess as to who my father was. 

 

“A moment later he said, ‘Well boy, you’re a child of...’ and he paused there.  And I knew it was coming.  I knew I would have my feelings hurt.  I knew I would not go back again. 

He said, “Boy, you’re a child of God.  I see a striking resemblance...’  Then, he swatted me on the bottom and said, ‘Now, you go claim you’re inheritance.’”

 

The elderly man said, “I left that building a different person.  In fact, that was really the beginning of my life.” (Craddock Stories)

 

Craddock, who had at first been perturbed, was now moved and intrigued and he asked the man his name.

 

He said, “Ben Hooper.”

 

And Craddock somehow recalled his father telling him when he was just a little boy how the people of Tennessee had twice elected a governor named Ben Hooper.

 

Faith is humility and possibility joined together through the love of Jesus Christ.  See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God, and so we are.  Amen.